Everyone need to grow up,Everyone need to becoming an adult。But how can you know if you have become an adult?
I am a child ,not only becouse I am 16,but also becuase that I need the supprot of my parent and I am not complete,I am not ready to become a adult adult both in the physic and mentol way。Someone will say that when you are 18 years old you will be an adult,but that is not right ,when people is 18 who is half an adult ,he is only ready in the physical way. Which is not enough at all. Adult should be the people who are ready in both physical and mental to face different knid of social problums when they get into the socity.
To be ready in the mental way of being an adult , this man shuold be independent and responsibly. I think it is very obiuse that when people grow up and step into the socity will face many preesure and problem that is difficult to solve. For example familys or bussniese ,but most of all is money .when you grow up you will need money on almost everything . You will need moeny for food ,shelter ,taxi and everything ,if you can’t cook you will need to go to the restraunt. Problem you have never imagion will jump into your face.so that is why people need to be both independent and responsibly.beside being an adult you will need to be knowledgeful. Maybe it’s my personal opion becuase in my memerry growen ups knows every thing and young folks will ask them question. They should answer it perficetly, or the children will think that they are fack ones and do not respecet them any more .
There are many children who want to be an adult ,becuase they think thery can do every thing they want but they are wroung , i am afraid of growing up becuase i think i can not take the responsivity of being an adult . Being an adult is very hard ,when you are a child your parents help you with every thing , help you with food ,water , shelter and, buy things you want .even you got into trouble you don’t need to go to jell , becuase you are not an adult . People can get away from trouble by the excuse of young and being a child .but when you grow up who can help you. And you will have your own children.it’s not freedom you will get when you grow up it’s responsivity.
When you grow up you need to give up many things,suce as freedom and the right to have joy ,being an adult is not easy .
BY JEFF DONG