First, if you want to be cherished, please, cherish others. That's the most important one of getting love from other people. Pay back not only use in business, it also be used for describing the emotional feelings among people. So it's kind of like a fair trade. If you cherish the love that other people just send to you, other people will remember your love.
Second, don't let other people influence your personal judgement.It means that if you think a person is very kind and gentle, then don't be afriad, just go and make a friend of him or her. And cherish all the people you think are important ones no matter if you hear some bad rumors about them. Ignore gossip,return to you a clean world.
Well personally, I used to don't know how to cherish people or something I really liked, I alwasy regreted after I lost them, so that make me realize that spend every single day with the people and also the life you have now was an extremely fun thing to do. And I also learnt that cherish people, you will keep the happiness you have now longer and even forever.
So just to care and show your love to them, your life will also be better when you get a big smile from something else