Talk about my dream, the first one that jumps into my mind is: have a good family (includes my parents are all good, have a husband I love and children I can care about) and become a good psychologist. Because being a psychologist has always been a really big dream for me. The reason why I put “have a good family” beyond being a psychologist is because I always believe the relationship in a family is the most important thing in the whole world. I mean, I cannot live without my family, no matter the one now I have, or the one I would have with my lover. People have many dreams, and so do I. So I have such other dreams like, eat everywhere, travel to a place without crowd near the seaside, etc.
Who are the GIANTS in your life?
There are many giants in my life, for instance, my mum and dad, my Chinese teacher Ms. Chen who has been taught me during primary school, my middle school Math teacher Mrs. Zhu, etc. But I really want to thank my mum, she is my torchbearer, and always took a great role on leading me to the right way and do the right things.
Are you afraid of failure? How will you prepare yourself mentally to overcome the challenges in your life?
Actually, I’m not a person who can totally handle all the troubles in her life. I get scared and frustrated sometimes as well. What I would do to prepare myself mentally to overcome the challenges in my life is to imagine all the worst consequences and ready to face them fearless. I believe I would get through all the problems in my life because there’s still a long way to go.
How can you take more initiative & develop your integrity
The way to take more initiative is to have a good self control. And to be integrity, we need to have a good manner. A good attitude makes you half way of succeed, I truly believe in it. And I believe if I have a good self control, and a good manner, I will be better, and take more initiative as well as develop my integrity.
How can you lead by example at SUIS?
Learning from good examples is always a good way to improve myself. For instance, I think maybe I can learn from Kathy about how to manage time since she has such many works to do and she has done everything pretty good. It is to find the balance of everything and manage a good order of everything. One important thing to memorize is to be unassertive. And never, ever, be haughty.
What kinds of healthy life habits can you develop now (today) and start practicing?
I think I should start from the sleeping time. I don’t want to stay up late either, so maybe try to do my works more quickly and manage my time more properly might be a good start. Because sleeping is really important for us especially we are still teens. I will work on this in the following days.