I don’t know why I suddenly had such kind of feeling, maybe just because I sometimes heard my mom talked about the troublesome stuff in our family. When I was a little younger, I felt so confused that why my family had so many boresome things happened? Why other family looked so peace and wonderful? They seemed like that they seldom met tough problems and sometimes even if they faced some difficulties, but they can still easily to figure them out. So in other words, they don’t have worries.
I don’t want to talk to many things about my family, but actually they confused me a lot. My mom spent little time on me and my Dad and I can seldom have a good conversion, maybe we just lack of communication.
However, when I thought about this way, I realize that even my friend’s family has the same story as mine, not only me had the problem. One day, my best friend called me, told me how bad he thought his life and his family was. How bad situation he had. Then I suddenly notice that every family has its own story, and it is not easy every time for you to solve. If one of your best friends call you and complain about his life, as his best friend, all you need to do is to be his best listener and give his your sincere suggestion. That’s what a friend should do and more importantly, it’s just the secret between you and your friend, you can never tell the third person unless your friend agrees.
Kyd