Qingming Festival is the day reminds people to remember their passed away relative and friends, to recall their love and happiness so to realize their life is good and can be better. As many story and old saying said: The left people would not like to see you, the living people live sadly because of their passed away. They will feel guilty and can not rest in peace which is not good at all and may lead to to some bad thing happens.
Sadness can destroy everything, especially your happiness and the things you already had and you do not want to loss. Many people or to say most of people feel sad when someone leave or maybe pass away, they just find this means they can not meet them again forever but in my world, at least when both of you are still alive then leaving just can not be sad, you must have chance to meet again. Especially in nowadays world, the high technology makes the connect with others, all over the world convenient. Using the internet, crossing over the sea can be done in three seconds, even without any cost of money.
I believe leaving predict meeting again. If you never be away from each other maybe you can not realized how happy you are can be stay with him/her, you won’t the importance of him/her and do not cherish them and will have no chance to get them back if one day you lose it. But if you lose or leave someone one day and you believe you will find or meet him/her/it one day then the life will full of hope and that will become the power to push you and support you when you face some difficulties, the hope gives you power to continue you hard life.
Leaving just should not be so sad, thinking positively and the life is always light, do not give sadness chance to beat you up.
--- By Linda
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