One day I was depressed, swallowed in sadness when my grandpa said something very important to me. He said "Life is what you make it". At first, I just got mad that he was trying to give me advise.
Later I moved. I left everything behind to go to a completely new country. I went to America. There I had time to think, time to be alone. In the loneliness of everything I starting seeing things a lot clearer. My mom, which was having issues at the time yelled almost every day. Eventually I started to break. I tried to see things from her point of view, but then I thought back to what my grandpa said "Life is what you make it". Could it be that all of your problems, worries and issues are just part of your imagination? Just like living in a country you don't want to or doing something you don't want to do the faster you accept it the more you will realize just how fair life is. Some aren't blessed with good looks, or amazing skill but every one can make the most out of what they have. I realized I have always known this but I was just to shallow to see it. I wanted to tell my mom everything I had just learnt but she needed some time alone to recover.
I saw kids with cancer, to try and convince myself life was not fair because it was stupid to think otherwise. But they were all happy for the time they had. They were just happy to live the life that they have lived and if they were happy just to get a taste of life, then why can't people with full lives be happy
Yes, life is fair. But that does not mean it is not hard. Life gives you the chance to be alive and that is the greatest gift of all. More valuble then money or any item. Worth more then the universe. It is life. While you are alive you might as well realize how special each and every individual is. Life is fair if you make the most out of what you have.